Journeys of an adoptive dad

The writings and ramblings of a first time dad navigating the world of adoption.

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Adopting a child with additional needs

02/03/2021 Like all prospective adopters, we had to think long and hard about our matching criteria during the approval process. When we started out, we wouldn’t have imagined adopting a child…

A drive for more adopters must be mirrored by a better package of support

13/02/2021 Adoption recruitment is essential, but so is post-adoption support and helping adopted young people understand their life stories. It’s clear that big moves are afoot in the worlds …

Sensory overload and early trauma

04/02/2021 I find myself thinking about the sensory processing issues that adopted children face more and more. Our daughter, like many has had significant sensory challenges, which relate to he…

Therapeutic parenting and authenticity

28/01/2021 Let’s be honest, sometimes parenting therapeutically is hard – really hard. It might be that you’re tired, something in another part of your life is taking up a lot of brain spa…

Three ways that you can have your voice heard on adoption right now

22/01/2021 A lot is happening in the world of adoption and children’s social care. There’s a huge ongoing focus on recruiting new adopters and a narrative coming from central Government abou…

“They all do that, don’t they?”

20/01/2021 It’s a mantra that all adopters here frequently. Usually it’s a loved one, who is genuinely trying to helpful when you’re describing some of the challenges of raising your child. T…

Thinking about adoption support

16/01/2021 It’s clear that post-adoption support is a huge issue. In 2020’s Adoption Barometer survey from Adoption UK, 68% of respondents who had obtained an adoption order didn’t have a …

Speeding up the adoption process at all costs is neither in the interests of children or adopters

22/12/2020 (previously published)* My family has benefited significantly from the rigour of the adoption process. I was asked by someone considering adoption whether the process is ‘invasive’,…

Early trauma, attachment and lockdown

22/12/2020 (previously published)* Lockdown is difficult for all children, but adopted children and those in the care system can experience some specific challenges related to their trauma. It w…

Reflections on a year of change

22/12/2020 (previously published)* This year was one of turbulence, upheaval and change on the national stage, but for also for me personally. I’m not really accustomed to writing about myself. B…

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Adopting a child with additional needs

02/03/2021 Like all prospective adopters, we had to think long and hard about our matching criteria during the approval process. When we started out, we wouldn’t have imagined adopting a child…